Basically a redo of https://github.com/ruby/ruby/commit/a1403fb7cbd1fe0df97c932be9814c86081783dc
but respecting the frozen string literal magic comment

Fixes [Bug #21187]

* Use FL_USER0 for ELTS_SHARED

This makes space in RString for two bits for chilled strings.

* Mark strings returned by `Symbol#to_s` as chilled

[Feature #20350]

`STR_CHILLED` now spans on two user flags. If one bit is set it
marks a chilled string literal, if it's the other it marks a
`Symbol#to_s` chilled string.

Since it's not possible, and doesn't make much sense to include
debug info when `--debug-frozen-string-literal` is set, we can't
include allocation source, but we can safely include the symbol
name in the warning message, making it much easier to find the source
of the issue.

Co-Authored-By: Étienne Barrié <etienne.barrie@gmail.com>

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Co-authored-by: Étienne Barrié <etienne.barrie@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Jean Boussier <jean.boussier@gmail.com>

They were initially made frozen to avoid false positives for cases such
as:

    str = str.dup if str.frozen?

But this may cause bugs and is generally confusing for users.

[Feature #20205]

Co-authored-by: Jean Boussier <byroot@ruby-lang.org>

[Feature #20205]

As a path toward enabling frozen string literals by default in the future,
this commit introduce "chilled strings". From a user perspective chilled
strings pretend to be frozen, but on the first attempt to mutate them,
they lose their frozen status and emit a warning rather than to raise a
`FrozenError`.

Implementation wise, `rb_compile_option_struct.frozen_string_literal` is
no longer a boolean but a tri-state of `enabled/disabled/unset`.

When code is compiled with frozen string literals neither explictly enabled
or disabled, string literals are compiled with a new `putchilledstring`
instruction. This instruction is identical to `putstring` except it marks
the String with the `STR_CHILLED (FL_USER3)` and `FL_FREEZE` flags.

Chilled strings have the `FL_FREEZE` flag as to minimize the need to check
for chilled strings across the codebase, and to improve compatibility with
C extensions.

Notes:
  - `String#freeze`: clears the chilled flag.
  - `String#-@`: acts as if the string was mutable.
  - `String#+@`: acts as if the string was mutable.
  - `String#clone`: copies the chilled flag.

Co-authored-by: Jean Boussier <byroot@ruby-lang.org>