Previously, ruby2_keywords could be used on a method or proc with
post arguments, but I don't think the behavior is desired:

```ruby
def a(*c, **kw) [c, kw] end
def b(*a, b) a(*a, b) end
ruby2_keywords(:b)

b({foo: 1}, bar: 1)
```

This changes ruby2_keywords to emit a warning and not set the
flag on a method/proc with post arguments.

While here, fix the ruby2_keywords specs for warnings, since they
weren't testing what they should be testing.  They all warned
because the method didn't accept a rest argument, not because it
accepted a keyword or keyword rest argument.

[Backport #21402]

[Backport #21094]

[Bug #20188]

Ref: https://github.com/fxn/zeitwerk/issues/281#issuecomment-1893228355

Previously, it would only return the real constant location once the
autoload was fully completed.