This rewrites the class allocator search to be faster. Instead of using
RCLASS_SUPER, which is now even slower due to Box, we can scan the
superclasses list to find a class where the allocator is defined.

This also disallows allocating from an ICLASS. Previously I believe that
was only done for FrozenCore, and that was changed in
e596cf6e93dbf121e197cccfec8a69902e00eda3.

This reverts commit 2998c8d6b99ec49925ebea42198b29c3e27b34a7.

We need to find a better way to fix this bug. Even with this refcount
change, errors were still being seen in CI. For now we need to remove
this failing test.

We were seeing errors like:

```
* thread #8, stop reason = EXC_BAD_ACCESS (code=1, address=0x803)
  * frame #0: 0x00000001001fe944 ruby`rb_st_lookup(tab=0x00000000000007fb, key=1, value=0x00000001305b7490) at st.c:1066:22
    frame #1: 0x000000010002d658 ruby`remove_class_from_subclasses [inlined] class_get_subclasses_for_ns(tbl=0x00000000000007fb, ns_id=1) at class.c:604:9
    frame #2: 0x000000010002d650 ruby`remove_class_from_subclasses(tbl=0x00000000000007fb, ns_id=1, klass=4754039232) at class.c:620:34
    frame #3: 0x000000010002c8a8 ruby`rb_class_classext_free_subclasses(ext=0x000000011b5ce1d8, klass=4754039232, replacing=<unavailable>) at class.c:700:9
    frame #4: 0x000000010002c760 ruby`rb_class_classext_free(klass=4754039232, ext=0x000000011b5ce1d8, is_prime=true) at class.c:105:5
    frame #5: 0x00000001000e770c ruby`classext_free(ext=<unavailable>, is_prime=<unavailable>, namespace=<unavailable>, arg=<unavailable>) at gc.c:1231:5 [artificial]
    frame #6: 0x000000010002d178 ruby`rb_class_classext_foreach(klass=<unavailable>, func=(ruby`classext_free at gc.c:1228), arg=0x00000001305b75c0) at class.c:518:5
    frame #7: 0x00000001000e745c ruby`rb_gc_obj_free(objspace=0x000000012500c400, obj=4754039232) at gc.c:1282:9
    frame #8: 0x00000001000e70d4 ruby`gc_sweep_plane(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=<unavailable>, p=4754039232, bitset=4095, ctx=0x00000001305b76e8) at default.c:3482:21
    frame #9: 0x00000001000e6e9c ruby`gc_sweep_page(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=0x000000012500c540, ctx=0x00000001305b76e8) at default.c:3567:13
    frame #10: 0x00000001000e51d0 ruby`gc_sweep_step(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=0x000000012500c540) at default.c:3848:9
    frame #11: 0x00000001000e1880 ruby`gc_continue [inlined] gc_sweep_continue(objspace=0x000000012500c400, sweep_heap=0x000000012500c540) at default.c:3931:13
    frame #12: 0x00000001000e1754 ruby`gc_continue(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=0x000000012500c540) at default.c:2037:9
    frame #13: 0x00000001000e10bc ruby`newobj_cache_miss [inlined] heap_prepare(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=0x000000012500c540) at default.c:2056:5
    frame #14: 0x00000001000e1074 ruby`newobj_cache_miss [inlined] heap_next_free_page(objspace=0x000000012500c400, heap=0x000000012500c540) at default.c:2280:9
    frame #15: 0x00000001000e106c ruby`newobj_cache_miss(objspace=0x000000012500c400, cache=0x0000600001b00300, heap_idx=2, vm_locked=false) at default.c:2387:38
    frame #16: 0x00000001000e0d28 ruby`newobj_alloc(objspace=<unavailable>, cache=<unavailable>, heap_idx=<unavailable>, vm_locked=<unavailable>) at default.c:2411:15 [artificial]
    frame #17: 0x00000001000d7214 ruby`newobj_of [inlined] rb_gc_impl_new_obj(objspace_ptr=<unavailable>, cache_ptr=<unavailable>, klass=<unavailable>, flags=<unavailable>, wb_protected=<unavailable>, alloc_size=<unavailable>) at default.c:2490:15
    frame #18: 0x00000001000d719c ruby`newobj_of(cr=<unavailable>, klass=4313971728, flags=258, wb_protected=<unavailable>, size=<unavailable>) at gc.c:995:17
    frame #19: 0x00000001000d73ec ruby`rb_wb_protected_newobj_of(ec=<unavailable>, klass=<unavailable>, flags=<unavailable>, size=<unavailable>) at gc.c:1044:12 [artificial]
    frame #20: 0x0000000100032d34 ruby`class_alloc0(type=<unavailable>, klass=4313971728, namespaceable=<unavailable>) at class.c:803:5
```

Calling the usual rb_iclass_classext_free() causes SEGV because
duplicating a newer classext of iclass had set the reference from superclass
to the newer classext, but calling rb_iclass_classext_free() deletes it.

to adopt strict shareable rule.

* (basically) shareable objects only refer shareable objects
* (exception) shareable objects can refere unshareable objects
  but should not leak reference to unshareable objects to Ruby world

The st_insert in RCLASS_SET_NAMESPACE_CLASSEXT may overwrite an existing
rb_classext_t, causing it to leak memory. This commit changes it to use
st_update to free the existing one before overwriting it.